On the plus side later that day – I have a lasso and was rubbing her with it, draped it over her back and made her walk as it drug behind her, and also stretched it out on the ground and made her walk all over it, she didn’t bat an eye, even when it was looped around one or more of her legs and was dragging behind and around her. I had a saddle blanket and tossed it on her back, neck, and butt and it didn’t faze her. I also put my hand on the back of both of her ears. It was nice she didn’t react to that. Normally she would have raised her head up or pulled it away just from the slightest contact on her ears.
So I am going to keep working with her ears, hooves, legs, respect, and manners.